Why. don't. you. get. it? Two families can never be one. Well maybe it can but for this special case, i can tell you IT. CANNOT. BE. ONE. Why? Because you caused a crack, a non-curable crack within this family. So don't expect us to live like a normal family with the outsiders because outsiders can never become a family- not as long as there is a crack.
Maybe someday it can but I doubt it's going to be anytime soon.